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Can I say something?' 'Go on' 'I'm a little drunk' 'Me…

“Can I say something?' 'Go on' 'I'm a little drunk' 'Me too. That's okay.' 'Just…I missed you, you know.' 'I missed you too.' 'But so, so much, Dexter. There were so many things I wanted to talk to you about, and you weren't there-' 'same here.' 'I tell you what it is. It's…When I didn't see you, I…” quote by David Nicholls
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““Can I say something?' 'Go on' 'I'm a little drunk' 'Me too. That's okay.' 'Just…I missed you, you know.' 'I missed you too.' 'But so, so much, Dexter. There were so many things I wanted to talk to you about, and you weren't there-' 'same here.' 'I tell you what it is. It's…When I didn't see you, I thought about you every day, I mean EVERY DAY in some way or another-' 'same here.' '-Even if it was just "I wish Dexter could see this" or "Where's Dexter now?" or "Christ that Dexter, what an idiot", you know what I mean, and seeing you today, well, I thought I'd got you back - my BEST friend. And now all this, the wedding, the baby- I'm so happy for you, Dex, but it feels like I've lost you again.'- -'You know what happens you have a family, your responsibilities change, you lose touch with people' 'It won't be like that, I promise.' 'Do you?' 'Absolutely' 'You swear? No more disappearing?' 'I won't if you won't.' Their lips touched now, mouths pursed tight, their eyes open, both of them stock still. The moment held, a kind of glorious confusion.””

David Nicholls

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Two friends confront the bittersweet reality of growing apart while still longing for connection, highlighting how life changes test relationships.

In simple terms: Friends feel distant as lives change.

Key Takeaway

Cherish moments before drift.

Themes

friendship love change loneliness growth

Mood

nostalgic hopeful conflicted

Type

conversational dramatic

When to use this quote

  • reunion
  • wedding
  • parenthood
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

emotional intimacy life transitions unspoken feelings

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you maintain closeness amid life changes?
  • What does “glorious confusion” reveal about love?
A Different Perspective

Even with love, distance can deepen; effort may not bridge gaps.

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