In the pre-Internet age you had to find gay things - or…
“In the pre-Internet age you had to find gay things - or things that were slightly radioactive with erotic interest. You had to go to the library, you had to find the books; you had to find the coded things. When everything's available and everything's okay, what does it become? It becomes shopping. We're shopping all the time, basically, whether for objects, or people. On Manhunt or Grindr, or whatever. It's click to buy.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
The quote contrasts past effortful search for erotic content with today's effortless, commodified access, suggesting intimacy has become a consumer habit.
In simple terms: Finding erotic material used to require work; now it’s just shopping.
Recognize how technology changes intimacy.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- Online dating
- social media
- personal relationships
- sexual exploration
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How has online convenience reshaped your intimate connections?
- Do you feel intimacy is more transactional now?
It may overlook the emotional depth that still exists beyond clicks.