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“In the pre-Internet age you had to find gay things - or things that were slightly radioactive with erotic interest. You had to go to the library, you had to find the books; you had to find the coded things. When everything's available and everything's okay, what does it become? It becomes…” quote by Daniel Mendelsohn
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“In the pre-Internet age you had to find gay things - or things that were slightly radioactive with erotic interest. You had to go to the library, you had to find the books; you had to find the coded things. When everything's available and everything's okay, what does it become? It becomes shopping. We're shopping all the time, basically, whether for objects, or people. On Manhunt or Grindr, or whatever. It's click to buy.”

Daniel Mendelsohn

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The quote contrasts past effortful search for erotic content with today's effortless, commodified access, suggesting intimacy has become a consumer habit.

In simple terms: Finding erotic material used to require work; now it’s just shopping.

Key Takeaway

Recognize how technology changes intimacy.

Themes

technologyity consumerism technology relationships

Mood

reflective critical

Type

observational analytical

When to use this quote

  • Online dating
  • social media
  • personal relationships
  • sexual exploration

Key Concepts

Digital media commodification desire

Questions to Reflect On

  • How has online convenience reshaped your intimate connections?
  • Do you feel intimacy is more transactional now?
A Different Perspective

It may overlook the emotional depth that still exists beyond clicks.

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