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“A number of wise men have warned us against the would-be benefits of vengeance. Mark Twain said, “Therein lies the defect of revenge: it’s all in the anticipation; the thing itself is a pain, not a pleasure; at least the pain is the biggest end of it.” Walter Weckler further observed that “revenge…” quote by Dan Ariely
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““A number of wise men have warned us against the would-be benefits of vengeance. Mark Twain said, “Therein lies the defect of revenge: it’s all in the anticipation; the thing itself is a pain, not a pleasure; at least the pain is the biggest end of it.” Walter Weckler further observed that “revenge has no more quenching effect on emotions than salt water has on thirst.” And Albert Schweitzer noted that “Revenge . . . is like a rolling stone, which, when a man hath forced up a hill, will return upon him with a greater violence, and break those bones whose sinews gave it motion.””

Dan Ariely

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Revenge feels worse in anticipation than in execution and ultimately harms the avenger more than anyone else.

In simple terms: Revenge hurts the seeker more than the target.

Key Takeaway

Avoid revenge; seek constructive resolution.

Themes

justice emotion selfcontrol consequences

Mood

reflective cautious

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal conflicts
  • legal disputes
  • relationship breakups
  • political retaliation

Key Concepts

psychology philosophy human nature

Questions to Reflect On

  • What personal grievances could you let go?
  • How does anticipation amplify pain?
A Different Perspective

Revenge can sometimes be a deterrent in extreme contexts.

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