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“I felt my soul overwhelmed with sorrow because, though I'm not in the least fond of dancing, I should have liked to dance with someone whom I adored with all my heart: I should have liked to have that someone there so that I could relieve my tension by telling him everything that I confided only…” quote by Colette
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““I felt my soul overwhelmed with sorrow because, though I'm not in the least fond of dancing, I should have liked to dance with someone whom I adored with all my heart: I should have liked to have that someone there so that I could relieve my tension by telling him everything that I confided only to Fanchette or to my pillow (and not even to my diary) because I so wildly needed that someone, and this humiliated me, and I would never surrender myself except to the someone whom I should completely love and completely know - dreams, in short, that would never be realized!””

Colette

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker longs for an intimate confidant to share deep feelings, but feels unable to find such a person, leading to sorrow and humiliation.

In simple terms: Desire for a trusted lover to share secrets causes pain.

Key Takeaway

Seek honest connection with a trusted partner.

Themes

loneliness desire humiliation unrequited love

Mood

melancholic yearning reflective

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • personal therapy
  • creative writing
  • friendship

Key Concepts

intimacy emotional vulnerability conflict avoidance

Questions to Reflect On

  • Who can you confide in safely?
  • How does unexpressed love affect wellbeing?
A Different Perspective

Finding a confidant may be impossible without mutual trust.

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