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“Consider this: Whenever someone is bothering you, and they just won't let up, and they won't listen to anything you have to say, what do you tell them to get them to shut up and go away? 'You're right.' It works every time. But you haven't agreed to their position. You have used 'you're right' to…” quote by Christopher Voss
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“Consider this: Whenever someone is bothering you, and they just won't let up, and they won't listen to anything you have to say, what do you tell them to get them to shut up and go away? 'You're right.' It works every time. But you haven't agreed to their position. You have used 'you're right' to get them to quit bothering you.”

Christopher Voss

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Using agreement language can defuse conflict and end unwanted interaction without conceding your stance.

In simple terms: Saying “you’re right” can stop a conversation without agreeing.

Key Takeaway

Use agreement phrases to disengage politely.

Themes

communication conflict resolution psychology

Mood

calm strategic assertive

Type

advice practical psychological

When to use this quote

  • customer service
  • personal relationships
  • negotiation
  • team meetings

Key Concepts

mirroring tactical empathy assertiveness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you maintain authenticity while using this tactic?
  • When is it better to set a firm boundary instead?
A Different Perspective

May encourage the other person to feel unheard if overused.

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