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“If we divine a discrepancy between a man's words and his character, the whole impression of him becomes broken and painful; he revolts the imagination by his lack of unity, and even the good in him is hardly accepted.” quote by Charles Horton Cooley
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“If we divine a discrepancy between a man's words and his character, the whole impression of him becomes broken and painful; he revolts the imagination by his lack of unity, and even the good in him is hardly accepted.”

Charles Horton Cooley

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

When words and character clash, the person seems fragmented, making it hard to accept even their good traits.

In simple terms: Inconsistent behavior breaks trust.

Key Takeaway

Align actions with words.

Themes

trust integrity perception

Mood

reflective concerned

Type

analytical psychological

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • leadership
  • public speaking

Key Concepts

cognitive dissonance social judgment identity

Questions to Reflect On

  • What causes the gap between speech and behavior?
  • How can you restore trust after inconsistency?
A Different Perspective

People may change; context matters.

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