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If an enthusiastic, ardent, and ambitious man marry a wife…

“If an enthusiastic, ardent, and ambitious man marry a wife on whose name there is a stain, which, though it originate in no fault of hers, may be visited by cold and sordid people upon her, and upon his children also: and, in exact proportion to his success in the world, be cast in his teeth, and…” quote by Charles Dickens
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“If an enthusiastic, ardent, and ambitious man marry a wife on whose name there is a stain, which, though it originate in no fault of hers, may be visited by cold and sordid people upon her, and upon his children also: and, in exact proportion to his success in the world, be cast in his teeth, and made the subject of sneers against him: he may, no matter how generous and good his nature, one day repent of the connection he formed in early life; and she may have the pain and torture of knowing that he does so.”

Charles Dickens

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Marrying into a tainted family can bring social stigma and personal regret, regardless of one’s virtues.

In simple terms: A bad marriage can cause lasting shame.

Key Takeaway

Choose partners wisely.

Themes

marriage reputation consequences

Mood

cautionary reflective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • Courtship
  • family gatherings
  • social events

Key Concepts

Social stigma family honor personal regret

Questions to Reflect On

  • What values should outweigh reputation?
  • Can love overcome inherited stigma?
A Different Perspective

Societal pressures may limit personal happiness.

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