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The old order, it is good for the old. A farmer wants his…

“The old order, it is good for the old. A farmer wants his son to be afraid of beautiful women, so that he will not leave home too soon, so he tells a story about how one drowned his brother’s cousin’s friend in a lake, not because he was a pig who deserved to be drowned, but because beautiful…” quote by Catherynne M. Valente
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“The old order, it is good for the old. A farmer wants his son to be afraid of beautiful women, so that he will not leave home too soon, so he tells a story about how one drowned his brother’s cousin’s friend in a lake, not because he was a pig who deserved to be drowned, but because beautiful women are bad, and also witches. And it doesn’t matter that she didn’t ask to be beautiful, or to be born in a lake, or to live forever, or to not know how men breathe until they stop doing it.”

Catherynne M. Valente

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The tale warns that clinging to outdated hierarchies and fear‑based teachings can corrupt values and stifle personal growth.

In simple terms: Old systems protect the old but harm the young.

Key Takeaway

Question inherited beliefs that limit freedom.

Themes

tradition power gender fear control

Mood

cautious reflective

Type

cautionary critical

When to use this quote

  • family upbringing
  • cultural rites
  • education
  • media narratives

Key Concepts

patriarchy mythmaking social conditioning

Questions to Reflect On

  • What traditions do you accept without question?
  • How can fear be replaced with curiosity?
A Different Perspective

Such warnings can become moral panic, ignoring nuance.

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