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How dare you!” she cried. “Of all the-- You arrogant…

“How dare you!” she cried. “Of all the-- You arrogant, simple-- Oh, never mind! Just you understand this ! Amongst my people, a man has one wife, only one, and he looks at no other, thinks of no other, touches no other, until death do they part. I wouldn’t marry you if you got on your knees and…” quote by Catherine Anderson
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““How dare you!” she cried. “Of all the-- You arrogant, simple-- Oh, never mind! Just you understand this ! Amongst my people, a man has one wife, only one, and he looks at no other, thinks of no other, touches no other, until death do they part. I wouldn’t marry you if you got on your knees and begged me!” Hunter sat up slowly, feeling a little dazed by her fury and wondering what had sparked it. Would he never understand her? She leaned toward him, her blue eyes flashing. “Even if I would marry you, an announcement by a central fire would not constitute a marriage in my books.” She thumped her chest. “I must make my vows before a priest! And furthermore, when I take a husband, he won’t be a Comanche. You couldn’t be chief husband, second husband, any husband, to me. You’re a barbarian who treats women like chattel!” Very calmly Hunter inserted, “You are my woman. You will sure enough marry no other.” “Well, if you think I’m going to marry you , you have another think coming! Never, do you hear me?””

Catherine Anderson

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A woman fiercely asserts her cultural marriage expectations, rejecting a marriage that doesn't honor her traditions and autonomy.

In simple terms: She refuses a marriage that doesn't respect her customs.

Key Takeaway

Respect cultural traditions in relationships.

Themes

culture tradition gender roles autonomy conflict

Mood

defiant assertive tense

Type

dialogue conflict cultural.

When to use this quote

  • arranged marriage discussions
  • cross‑cultural relationships
  • personal boundaries
  • negotiating expectations
  • respecting tradition

Key Concepts

Patriarchy cultural identity marriage norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can partners honor cultural traditions while building shared values?
  • What compromises are acceptable without betraying identity?
A Different Perspective

Her perspective may overlook the possibility of mutual compromise or evolving customs.

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