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“If you injure someone you dislike, you will find yourself disliking him more. If you do him a good turn, you will find yourself disliking him less.” quote by C S Lewis
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“If you injure someone you dislike, you will find yourself disliking him more. If you do him a good turn, you will find yourself disliking him less.”

C S Lewis

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Treating others influences how we feel about them; kindness reduces animosity, while harm increases it.

In simple terms: Kindness makes us like people more; harm makes us like them less.

Key Takeaway

Choose kindness to improve relationships.

Themes

kindness empathy reciprocity

Mood

thoughtful optimistic

Type

ethical psychological

When to use this quote

  • workplace interactions
  • family disputes
  • friendship conflicts

Key Concepts

psychology social behavior

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can you recall a time kindness changed your view of someone?
  • What limits kindness’s impact?
A Different Perspective

People may not change despite kind acts.

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