Need-love cries to God from our poverty; Gift-love longs…
““Need-love cries to God from our poverty; Gift-love longs to serve, or even to suffer for, God; Appreciative love says: “We give thanks to thee for thy great glory.” Need-love says of a woman “I cannot live without her”; Gift-love longs to give her happiness, comfort, protection – if possible, wealth; Appreciative love gazes and holds its breath and is silent, rejoices that such a wonder should exist even if not for him, will not be wholly dejected by losing her, would rather have it so than never to have seen her at all.” p.17””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Love manifests in four forms: need, gift, appreciation, and divine, each with distinct motivations and outcomes.
In simple terms: Love has different types with different drives.
Recognize and nurture the higher forms of love.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marriage
- friendship
- charity work
- personal growth
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Which love type guides your relationships?
- How can you shift from need to appreciative love?
Need-love can become possessive, limiting freedom.