Now before going to a party, I just tell myself to listen…
“Now before going to a party, I just tell myself to listen with affection to anyone who talks to me... to try to know them without my mind pressing against theirs, or arguing or changing the subject. No. My attitude is: "Tell me more. This person is showing me his soul. It is a little dry and meager and full of grinding talk just now, but presently he will begin to think, not just automatically to talk. He will show his true self. Then he will be wonderfully alive."”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Encourages listening with genuine curiosity, allowing others to reveal deeper selves beyond superficial conversation.
In simple terms: Listen deeply to let people show their true selves.
Key Takeaway
Practice open, attentive listening.
Themes
empathy
communication
self-awareness
relationship building
mindfulness
Mood
thoughtful
hopeful
reflective
Type
inspirational
philosophical
dialogue
When to use this quote
- social gatherings
- networking events
- therapy sessions
- team meetings
- first dates
Key Concepts
active listening
psychological safety
personal growth
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you stay present without judgment?
- What habits help you avoid mental interference?
A Different Perspective
Listening may be challenging when personal biases intervene.