Death loses its terror if one dies when one has consummated one's life! — Irvin D. Yalom Death Copy Share Image
“Hair and hole, horn and teeth—hedgehog, walrus, ape, Josef Breuer. He” — Irvin D. Yalom Hedgehog Copy Share Image
To care of another individual means to know and to experience the other as fully as possible. — Irvin D. Yalom Care Copy Share Image
Not to take possession of your life plan is to let your existence be an accident. — Irvin D. Yalom Accident Copy Share Image
Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death. — Irvin D. Yalom After death Copy Share Image
The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else... — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image
If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic. — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image
... sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past. — Irvin D. Yalom Giving Copy Share Image
...the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety. The more you fail to experience your life fully, the more you… — Irvin D. Yalom Anxiety Copy Share Image
“The establishment of an authentic relationship with patients, by its very nature, demands that we forego the power of the triumvirate of… — Irvin D. Yalom Patience Copy Share Image
Therapists need to have a long experience in personal therapy to see what it's like to be on the other side of… — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image
“Schopenhauer and Spinoza distilled, condensed, and funneled through the pupil, along the optic nerve, and directly into our occipital lobes. I’d love… — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image
“One thing he resolved was not to make that one good year a bad year by grieving that it was not more… — Irvin D. Yalom Grieving Copy Share Image
“I've always regarded therapy more as a calling than a profession, a way of life for people who care about others.” — Irvin D. Yalom Career Copy Share Image
“People fear contact with the afflicted because they wish not to be confronted with the death that awaits each of them.” — Irvin D. Yalom Death Copy Share Image
“Do not pander, patronize, scheme, or strategize,” his instincts told him. “Simply go about your business in your usual professional manner.” “But” — Irvin D. Yalom Patronize Copy Share Image
“Heidegger spoke of two modes of existence: the everyday mode and the ontological mode. In the everyday mode we are consumed with… — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image
Death cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns--fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns--seem to melt away, and people get another perspective… — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image
A sense of life meaning ensues but cannot be deliberately pursued: life meaning is always a derivative phenomenon that materializes when we… — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image
Religion has everything on its side: revelation, prophecies, government protection, the highest dignity and eminence. . . and more than this, the… — Irvin D. Yalom Age Copy Share Image
I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is… — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image
“Encased in an elaborate illusion of unlimited power and progress, each of us subscribes, at least until one’s mid-life crisis, to the… — Irvin D. Yalom Existence Copy Share Image
“They are part of the slave mentality artfully engineered by priestly propaganda. Dissect your motives deeper! You will find that no one… — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image
What? 'Borderline patients play games'? That what you said? Ernest, you'll never be a real therapist if you think like that. That's… — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image
“One of the great paradoxes of life is that self-awareness breeds anxiety. Fusion eradicates anxiety in a radical fashion—by eliminating self-awareness. The… — Irvin D. Yalom Life Copy Share Image
In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back… — Irvin D. Yalom Awareness Copy Share Image
“In the first place a man never is happy but spends his whole life in striving after something which he thinks will… — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image
“Every breath we draw wards off the death that constantly impinges on us…. Ultimately death must triumph, for by birth it has… — Irvin D. Yalom Breath Copy Share Image
“It has often been noted that three major revolutions in thought have threatened the idea of human centrality. First, Copernicus demonstrated that… — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image
“Controversy has always existed among psychiatrists and psychologists about the validity of personality diagnosis. Some believe in the merits of the enterprise… — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image
“The freedom of an unscheduled afternoon brought confusion rather than joy. Julius had always been focused. When he was not seeing patients,… — Irvin D. Yalom Freedom Copy Share Image
Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms. The drive for power is not uncommonly… — Irvin D. Yalom Anxiety Copy Share Image
To the extent that one is responsible for one's life, one is alone. — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image
“Some cannot loosen their own chains yet can nonetheless liberate their friends. —Nietzsche” — Irvin D. Yalom Friendship Copy Share Image
To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another. — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image
“{B]eware of empty compliments - make your support as incisive as your feedback or interpretations.” — Irvin D. Yalom Compliments Copy Share Image
Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us. — Irvin D. Yalom Death Copy Share Image
“Everything, every fact, bar none, has a cause, and we must understand that everything necessarily occurs.” — Irvin D. Yalom Copy Share Image