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I knew even then that she was right. An en is a karmic…

“I knew even then that she was right. An en is a karmic bond lasting a lifetime. Nowadays many people seem to believe their lives are entirely a matter of choice; but in my day we viewed ourselves as pieces of clay that forever show the fingerprints of everyone who has touched them. Nobu's touch…” quote by Arthur Golden
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““I knew even then that she was right. An en is a karmic bond lasting a lifetime. Nowadays many people seem to believe their lives are entirely a matter of choice; but in my day we viewed ourselves as pieces of clay that forever show the fingerprints of everyone who has touched them. Nobu's touch had made a deeper impression on me than most. No one could tell me whether he would be my ultimate destiny, but I had always sensed the en between us. Somewhere in the landscape of my life Nobu would always be present. But could it really be that of all the lessons I'd learned, the hardest one lay just ahead of me? Would I really have to take each of my hopes and put them away where no one would ever see them again, where not even I would ever see them?””

Arthur Golden

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The quote reflects on destiny, deep connections, and the tension between personal choice and predetermined bonds shaped by past influences.

In simple terms: Deep bonds shape us beyond our choices.

Key Takeaway

Accept that some ties are beyond control.

Themes

destiny relationships choice identity fate

Mood

reflective melancholic thoughtful

Type

literary philosophical emotional

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • career decisions
  • family expectations
  • spiritual reflection

Key Concepts

karmic bond personal growth self‑realization

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance destiny with personal agency?
  • What role do past influences play in your current decisions?
A Different Perspective

The notion of a fixed bond may limit personal agency and growth.

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