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“...when I betray myself, others' faults become immediately inflated in my heart and mind. I begin to 'horribilize' others. That is, I begin to make them out to be worse than they really are. And I do this because the worse they are, the more justified I feel.” quote by Arbinger Institute
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““...when I betray myself, others' faults become immediately inflated in my heart and mind. I begin to 'horribilize' others. That is, I begin to make them out to be worse than they really are. And I do this because the worse they are, the more justified I feel.””

Arbinger Institute

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Self‑betrayal inflates others' faults, leading to unjustified condemnation and moral superiority.

In simple terms: Self‑betrayal causes us to unfairly judge others.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate self‑awareness to avoid projecting faults.

Themes

psychology self‑awareness judgment ethics projection

Mood

reflective critical analytical

Type

psychological ethical motivational

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • teamwork
  • personal growth
  • leadership development

Key Concepts

cognitive bias self‑deception moral psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • What triggers your self‑betrayal?
  • How can you check inflated judgments?
A Different Perspective

Self‑critique may be insufficient without external feedback.

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