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“The other exception to the rule regards dealings with masochists. A masochist derives pleasure from being hurt; so denying the masochist his pleasure through-pain hurts him just as much as actual physical pain hurts the non masochist. The story of the truly cruel sadist illustrates this point: The…” quote by Anton Szandor LaVey
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“The other exception to the rule regards dealings with masochists. A masochist derives pleasure from being hurt; so denying the masochist his pleasure through-pain hurts him just as much as actual physical pain hurts the non masochist. The story of the truly cruel sadist illustrates this point: The masochist says to the sadist, "beat me." To which the merciless sadist replies, "NO!" If a person wants to be hurt and enjoys suffering, then there is no reason not to indulge him in his wont.”

Anton Szandor LaVey

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Indulging a masochist’s desire for pain satisfies them, while denying it causes comparable distress.

In simple terms: Allowing desired pain prevents greater harm.

Key Takeaway

Respect consensual preferences.

Themes

ethics consent psychology

Mood

thoughtful serious

Type

ethical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • BDSM negotiations
  • conflict resolution
  • personal boundaries

Key Concepts

masochism sadism pain dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do we ensure consent is genuine?
  • When should limits be set?
A Different Perspective

Consent must be informed and voluntary; power imbalances can complicate.

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