The capacity to form attachments on equal terms is…
““The capacity to form attachments on equal terms is considered evidence of emotional maturity. It is the absence of this capacity which is pathological. Whether there may be other criteria of emotional maturity, like the capacity to be alone, is seldom taken into account.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Emotional maturity includes forming equal attachments; lacking this is unhealthy, yet solitude capacity is often ignored.
In simple terms: Maturity means balanced relationships and healthy solitude.
Value both connection and alone time.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy
- personal growth
- friendship
- loneliness
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does healthy solitude look like?
- How can we assess our attachment balance?