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““And so I miss the fertilization that might come from a contact. And for me--yes, I think I might as well admit it--fertilization does come a great deal from contacts. Why then do I avoid them--in a sort of false pride--shyness--timorous modesty? I used to be afraid of falling in love with people--or having them think I was--that I was chasing them (how ridiculous--I am actually always running away!) but now surely--I should be mature enough to be over that. I am no longer afraid of falling in love, and the other false modesties should vanish. I cannot bear to think "par delicatesse j'ai perdu ma vie." (Because of discretion I have lost my life).””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Avoiding intimacy stems from false pride and shyness; embracing love requires maturity and letting go of pretenses.
In simple terms: Shyness blocks love; maturity frees you.
Key Takeaway
Embrace genuine connection.
Themes
love
self‑esteem
personal growth
Mood
introspective
hopeful
Type
personal
inspirational
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendship building
- self‑acceptance workshops
Key Concepts
psychology
human relationships
Questions to Reflect On
- What fears keep you from intimacy?
- How can you practice authentic vulnerability?
A Different Perspective
Overcoming shyness may need external support.