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“If you would but consider your own unattractive exterior, your unamiable reserve, your foolish diffidence, which must make you appear cold, dull, awkward, and perhaps ill-tempered too;… if you had but rightly considered these from the beginning, you would never have harboured such presumptuous…” quote by Anne Brontë
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““If you would but consider your own unattractive exterior, your unamiable reserve, your foolish diffidence, which must make you appear cold, dull, awkward, and perhaps ill-tempered too;… if you had but rightly considered these from the beginning, you would never have harboured such presumptuous thoughts; and now that you have been so foolish, pray repent and amend, and let us have no more of it!””

Anne Brontë

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Self‑awareness of personal flaws can prevent arrogance and improve relationships; recognizing and correcting one's own shortcomings leads to humility and better conduct.

In simple terms: Know your flaws to stay humble.

Key Takeaway

Reflect on and improve your behavior.

Themes

humility self‑reflection personal growth

Mood

thoughtful serious

Type

advice reflective

When to use this quote

  • team meetings
  • personal counseling
  • leadership training
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

psychology ethics communication

Questions to Reflect On

  • What personal habits could you adjust?
  • How does humility affect teamwork?
A Different Perspective

Changing behavior requires effort and support from others.

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