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Occasionally you'll say "Excuse me" when I happen to stand…

“Occasionally you'll say "Excuse me" when I happen to stand in your way, and "Thank you" when your ball drifts into my court and I hurl it back to you. With these few words, I find comfort in false hopes and hope in false starts. I'll coddle anything instead of nothing. Even thinking that nothing…” quote by André Aciman
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““Occasionally you'll say "Excuse me" when I happen to stand in your way, and "Thank you" when your ball drifts into my court and I hurl it back to you. With these few words, I find comfort in false hopes and hope in false starts. I'll coddle anything instead of nothing. Even thinking that nothing can come of nothing gives me a leg to stand on, something to consider when I wake up in the middle of the night and can see nothing, not the blackout in my life, not the screen, not the cellar, not even hope and false comforts -just the joy of your imagined limb touching mine. I prefer the illusion of perpetual fasting to the certainty of famine. I have, I think, what's called a broken heart.””

André Aciman

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A tangled reflection on longing, illusion, and the paradox of seeking comfort in imagined connections while confronting emptiness.

In simple terms: Longing mixes hope and illusion, creating false comforts.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and question the fantasies that mask true emptiness.

Themes

loneliness illusion desire heartbreak

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • nighttime introspection
  • relationship grief
  • creative writing
  • self‑analysis

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology romanticism

Questions to Reflect On

  • What comforts do you cling to that may be false?
  • How does imagination both heal and hurt?
A Different Perspective

Illusions can deepen isolation if not examined.

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