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He took a breath. “We may never speak about this again…

“He took a breath. “We may never speak about this again. But I hope you’ll never hold it against me that we did. I will have been a terrible father if, one day, you’d want to speak to me and felt that the door was shut or not sufficiently open.” I wanted to ask him how he knew. But then how could…” quote by André Aciman
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““He took a breath. “We may never speak about this again. But I hope you’ll never hold it against me that we did. I will have been a terrible father if, one day, you’d want to speak to me and felt that the door was shut or not sufficiently open.” I wanted to ask him how he knew. But then how could he not have known? How could anyone not have known? “Does Mother know?” I asked. I was going to say suspect but corrected myself. “I don’t think she does.” His voice meant, But even if she did, I am sure her attitude would be no different than mine.””

André Aciman

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A father worries that his silence may be seen as rejection, fearing it will damage his child's trust and openness.

In simple terms: Father fears silence will hurt relationship.

Key Takeaway

Be open and communicate early.

Themes

family communication trust

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

advice emotional

When to use this quote

  • parent‑child conversations
  • conflict resolution
  • mental health support

Key Concepts

parental responsibility emotional honesty

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we balance honesty with protecting loved ones?
  • When is silence a better choice?
A Different Perspective

Silence can also protect privacy and prevent hurtful revelations.

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