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As a quick aside, let me observe that in moments of high…

“As a quick aside, let me observe that in moments of high emotion…if the next thing you're going to say makes you feel better, then it's probably the wrong thing to say. This is one of the finer maxims that I've discovered in life. And you can have it, since it's been of no use to me.” quote by Amor Towles
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““As a quick aside, let me observe that in moments of high emotion…if the next thing you're going to say makes you feel better, then it's probably the wrong thing to say. This is one of the finer maxims that I've discovered in life. And you can have it, since it's been of no use to me.””

Amor Towles

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

When emotions run high, saying what feels good often misleads; restraint yields wiser communication.

In simple terms: Avoid saying what feels good in heated moments.

Key Takeaway

Pause and consider truth over comfort.

Themes

communication emotion self‑control

Mood

reflective calm

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • personal relationships
  • public speaking

Key Concepts

psychology ethics impulse control

Questions to Reflect On

  • What truth are you avoiding?
  • How can you express honesty gently?
A Different Perspective

It may suppress immediate relief, risking emotional bottling.

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