In Europe they think it is a bit barbaric, this way to…
![“In Europe they think it is a bit barbaric, this way to look for a wife," Mohammad says to his hands, which have not stopped fidgeting since we sat down. [...] "Sometimes I believe it is barbaric how do people meet each other in Europe, you know, so often through alcohol or some kind of superficial…” quote by Alison Wearing](https://sms4smile.com/q/i/7b4/alison-wearing-99105_marriage_in-europe-they-think-it-is-a-bit-barbari_3230820.jpg)
““In Europe they think it is a bit barbaric, this way to look for a wife," Mohammad says to his hands, which have not stopped fidgeting since we sat down. [...] "Sometimes I believe it is barbaric how do people meet each other in Europe, you know, so often through alcohol or some kind of superficial meeting, parties or someplace other. It is so easy to… how do you call it… act as some other person. I had one German girlfriend, for two years were we together and only have I seen some sides of her, very good and kind, but only the outside, fun and happy, I could not see who was she in earnest. It was always something for showing other people.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
European dating customs feel superficial and inauthentic, leading to shallow connections.
In simple terms: Dating feels shallow.
Key Takeaway
Seek authentic relationships.
Themes
relationships
culture
authenticity
superficiality
dating norms
Mood
critical
contemplative
Type
Marriage:1
Two years:0
Europe Think:0
German Girlfriend:0
Believe Barbaric:0
Mohammad Says:0
Wife Mohammad:0
When to use this quote
- dating apps
- social events
- cross‑cultural relationships
Key Concepts
social behavior
cultural critique
personal values
Questions to Reflect On
- What makes a connection authentic?
- How can cultural expectations be challenged?
A Different Perspective
Changing norms may improve depth over time.