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“Occasionally my mother called from California. My parents had hurried and difficult conversations. She asked after Buckley and Linsey and Holiday. She asked how the house was holded up and whether there was anything he needed to tell her. 'We still miss you,' he said in December 1977, when the…” quote by Alice Sebold
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““Occasionally my mother called from California. My parents had hurried and difficult conversations. She asked after Buckley and Linsey and Holiday. She asked how the house was holded up and whether there was anything he needed to tell her. 'We still miss you,' he said in December 1977, when the leaves had all fallen and been blown or raked away but even still, with the ground waiting to recieve it, there had been no snow. 'I know that,' she said. 'What about teaching? I thought that was your plan,' 'It was,' she conceded. She was on the phone in the office of the winery. Things had slowed up after the lunch crowd, but five limos of old ladies, three sheets to the wind, were soon due in. She was silent and then she said something that no one, least of all my father, could have argued with. 'Plans change.' ~pgs 226; Changing plans””

Alice Sebold

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Plans change; adaptability is essential when life’s circumstances shift unexpectedly.

In simple terms: Plans change, adapt.

Key Takeaway

Embrace flexibility in life.

Themes

change adaptability life planning

Mood

reflective calm

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • career decisions
  • personal relationships
  • travel plans

Key Concepts

psychology philosophy resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you respond to unexpected changes?
  • What strategies help you stay adaptable?
A Different Perspective

Rigid plans can cause stress when reality diverges.

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