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And when Mary nodded, Pauline said, "You'd better hurry…

“And when Mary nodded, Pauline said, "You'd better hurry then, you know how how is," and laughed to show she would not be married to bald John Keane for all the tea in China. In her laugh was every confidence Mary had ever shared with Pauline about her husband's failings, every unguarded criticism…” quote by Alice McDermott
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““And when Mary nodded, Pauline said, "You'd better hurry then, you know how how is," and laughed to show she would not be married to bald John Keane for all the tea in China. In her laugh was every confidence Mary had ever shared with Pauline about her husband's failings, every unguarded criticism, every angry, impromptu, frustrated critique of his personality, his manners, his sometimes morbid, sometimes inscrutable, sometimes impatient ways. A repository, Pauline and her laugh, for every moment in thier marriage when Mary Keane had not loved her husband, when love itself had seemed a misapprehension, a delusion (a stranger standing outside of Schrafft's transformed into an answered prayer), and marriage--which Pauline had had sense enough to spurn--simply an awkward pact with a stranger, any stranger, John or George, Tom, Dick, or Harry. A repository, Pauline and her laugh, her knowing eye, for all that Mary Keane should have kept to herself.””

Alice McDermott

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Pauline uses humor to mask deep marital dissatisfaction, storing criticism and frustration in laughter.

In simple terms: Laughter hides marital resentment.

Key Takeaway

Recognize humor as a coping mechanism.

Themes

marriage humor criticism disillusionment communication

Mood

melancholic introspective

Type

literary reflective

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • conflict resolution
  • therapy sessions
  • friendship
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

emotional suppression social masks

Questions to Reflect On

  • What truths are hidden behind jokes?
  • How can you address marital issues directly?
A Different Perspective

Humor may prevent honest dialogue and prolong unhappiness.

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