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“I have often behaved badly and I have often behaved foolishly; but, as it happens, I find that on the whole, the things that I have been most blamed for are exactly the things I would do again to-morrow if I had the chance. The things I regret are, generally speaking, the occasional compromises…” quote by Alfred B. Douglas
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““I have often behaved badly and I have often behaved foolishly; but, as it happens, I find that on the whole, the things that I have been most blamed for are exactly the things I would do again to-morrow if I had the chance. The things I regret are, generally speaking, the occasional compromises and the (infrequent) runnings away from high attitudes which I failed to carry through to their ends. In short, what I regret in my life is just that part of it which worldly wisdom applauds… A thing does not become right because the world says it is right, any more than it becomes wrong because the world says it is wrong. One can act only according to one’s lights and if one is in good faith, one may hope that in the long run justification will result, even if not in this world or in one’s own lifetime.””

Alfred B. Douglas

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The author reflects that personal regret stems from compromising integrity, not from bold actions, and that true justification comes from inner conviction rather than societal approval.

In simple terms: Regret comes from compromising values, not from daring acts.

Key Takeaway

Stay true to your principles.

Themes

integrity regret personal philosophy

Mood

thoughtful reflective

Type

philosophical personal

When to use this quote

  • making ethical decisions
  • standing up for beliefs
  • avoiding compromise
  • long‑term self‑assessment

Key Concepts

moral courage inner conviction worldly vs personal truth

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you prioritize personal integrity over social approval?
  • How can you recognize when compromise is necessary?
A Different Perspective

Societal pressure may still influence outcomes despite personal integrity.

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