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A woman’s body never really belongs to herself. As an…

“A woman’s body never really belongs to herself. As an infant, my body was my mother’s, a detachable extension of her own, a digestive passage clamped and unclamped from her body. My parents would watch over it, watch over what went in and out of it, and as I grew up I would be expected to carry on…” quote by Alexandra Kleeman
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““A woman’s body never really belongs to herself. As an infant, my body was my mother’s, a detachable extension of her own, a digestive passage clamped and unclamped from her body. My parents would watch over it, watch over what went in and out of it, and as I grew up I would be expected to carry on their watching by myself. Then there was sex, and a succession of years in which I trawled my body along behind me like a drift net, hoping that I wouldn’t catch anything in it by accident, like a baby or a disease. I had kept myself free of these things only through clumsy accident and luck. At rare and specific moments when my body was truly my own, I never knew what to do with it.””

Alexandra Kleeman

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Explores bodily autonomy and the lingering influence of others on self-identity

In simple terms: Body ownership is complex and contested

Key Takeaway

Assert personal agency over one's body

Themes

feminism identity autonomy

Mood

introspective poignant

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • healthcare decisions
  • personal boundaries
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

bodily sovereignty psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you reclaim ownership of your body?
  • What role does society play in shaping bodily identity?
A Different Perspective

Societal norms can limit true autonomy

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