But where's the man, who counsel can bestow, Still pleas'd…
““But where's the man, who counsel can bestow, Still pleas'd to teach, and yet not proud to know? Unbias'd, or by favour or by spite; Not dully prepossess'd, nor blindly right; Though learn'd, well-bred; and though well-bred, sincere; Modestly bold, and humanly severe? Who to a friend his faults can freely show, And gladly praise the merit of a foe? Blest with a taste exact, yet unconfin'd; A knowledge both of books and human kind; Gen'rous converse; a soul exempt from pride; And love to praise, with reason on his side?””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
A true friend and wise counselor is modest, knowledgeable, sincere, and can critique both self and others without pride.
In simple terms: A good friend is humble, learned, sincere, and honest.
Key Takeaway
Seek friends who balance humility with knowledge.
Themes
friendship
humility
wisdom
honesty
self‑awareness
Mood
thoughtful
inspirational
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal growth
- mentorship
- conflict mediation
Key Concepts
philosophy
ethics
character development
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you recognize genuine humility?
- Can honesty coexist with kindness?
A Different Perspective
Even the wise can be biased; humility may be mistaken for weakness.