Such a wife as I want... must be young, handsome I lay…
“Such a wife as I want... must be young, handsome I lay most stress upon a good shape, sensible a little learning will do, well-bread, chaste, and tender. As to religion, a moderate stock will satisfy me. She must believe in God and hate a saint.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
He describes an ideal partner emphasizing youth, attractiveness, health, modest education, virtue, and religious moderation, while rejecting extreme piety.
In simple terms: He wants a young, good‑looking, healthy, modestly educated, virtuous, moderately religious wife.
Key Takeaway
Seek balance in partner expectations.
Themes
relationships
virtue
religion
appearance
moderation
Mood
contemplative
critical
Type
advice
reflective
When to use this quote
- marriage selection
- dating criteria
- family planning
- personal values
Key Concepts
idealization
social expectations
gender roles
Questions to Reflect On
- What values matter most beyond appearance?
- How does religious moderation affect partnership?
A Different Perspective
May overlook deeper compatibility and mutual respect.