Nobody ever saw a dog make a fair and deliberate exchange…
““Nobody ever saw a dog make a fair and deliberate exchange of one bone for another with another dog. Nobody ever saw one animal by its gestures and natural cries signify to another, this is mine, that yours; I am willing to give this for that…But man has almost constant occasion for the help of his brethren, and it is in vain for him to expect it from their benevolence only. He will be more likely to prevail if he can interest their self-love in his favour, and show them that it is for their own advantage to do for him what he requires of them. Whoever offers to another a bargain of any kind, proposes to do this. Give me that which I want, and you shall have this which you want, is the meaning of every such offer; and it is in this manner that we obtain from one another the far greater part of those good offices which we stand in need of.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Human cooperation often relies on self‑interest, so framing requests as mutually beneficial encourages assistance.
In simple terms: People help each other when they see personal gain.
Present offers as win‑win.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- business negotiations
- team projects
- diplomacy
- community organizing
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What incentives make you more likely to help?
- Can you help without expecting return?
May overlook genuine altruism.