“The best don’t stick around when you treat them poorly, only the desperate do.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you have to convince someone to stay with you then they have already left.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You may marry Miss Grey for her fifteen pounds but you will always be my Willoughby. My nightmare. My sorrow. My past.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Your heart’s strength is measured by how hard it holds on. Your self worth and faith is measured by finally letting go.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When you think this pain is all you deserve, you are right. You are the only one that can decide how long… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“A life out of balance is a person that doesn’t believe happiness can be achieved now, or in the future. It is… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If your love for another person doesn’t include loving yourself then your love is incomplete.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Diversity of character is due to the unequal time given to values. Only through each other will we see the importance of… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you choose to be fearless, then be fearlessly authentic not an imitation of someone you envy.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The secret to life is to have no fear. When you can let go of what others think about you, how something… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“ Hey You You are beautiful. You are talented. You are blessed. You are gifted. You are smart. You are funny. You… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Often people that settle in life are those that only do what they can with what they have and where they are.… — Shannon l. Alder Copy Share Image
“The secret to your purpose is to find what you feel is important, and not pursue what others would think is important.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God never uses one approach to the get his job done in the world. Each soul has its own way of being… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Having dignity doesn't require you to fall out of love with someone. You can love someone your entire life and not been… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Staying silent is like a slow growing cancer to the soul and a trait of a true coward. There is nothing intelligent… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The only love you have to prove in life is your love of God and helping others. Anyone that can't see that… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Do you want to be in your own story or on the outside writing about it? Everyone battles fear and uncertainty every… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You have two choices in life when it comes to truthful observations by others that anger you: You can be ashamed and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The source to low self-esteem is the lack of control you feel you have in your life. If you spend your life… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don't waste your time trying to provide people with proof of deceit, in order to keep their love, win their love or… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“A competitive and insecure woman will tell you that “true love” is never giving up on someone you're in love with. A… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If it were true love, he would never make you sacrifice your dignity to be with him. He would respect you and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“God has a plan and guess what? The plan is to stop waiting for him to do everything for you. The person… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You might not get the apology you deserve. You might not get answers to explain the actions of others. You might not… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When someone you love dies, you are given the gift of "second chances". Their eulogy is a reminder that the living can… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The problem isn’t that I think so highly of myself. It is just that you think so little of yourself. Live life… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Chasing a person doesn’t give you value or build values in you. You earn your value by chasing morality and practicing dignity.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“True confidence is not about what you take from someone to restore yourself, but what you give back to your critics because… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t ever stray from yourself, in order to be close to someone that doesn’t have the courtesy to remind you of your… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Chasing a man is not winning. The only thing you win is the loss of your dignity. Confidence is knowing your value,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Unrequited love is the only emotion that allows sane people to taste the “life sentence” of someone with bipolar disorder. The longer… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Your dignity can be mocked, abused, compromised, toyed with, lowered and even badmouthed, but it can never be taken from you. You… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t waste your time trying to explain yourself to people that are committed to misunderstanding you. Instead, commit your time to explaining who they… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“God has a way of picking a “nobody” and turning their world upside down, in order to create a “somebody” that will remove the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“Mental illness is not something you misunderstand in this era. Get educated because bias is no different than racism.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“It takes a female to have a baby, It takes a woman to raise a child, It takes a mother to raise them correctly,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return and together your story… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after it and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“It is not the self respect and pride that you take with you, but the heritage you leave behind to your children that matters.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“The art of being wise is the art of knowing that solutions don’t come from individuals, but rather experiences.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“After every storm, there is a rainbow. If you have eyes, you will find it. If you have wisdom, you will create it. If… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“Don’t ever feel bad that someone couldn’t give you all of their heart. Be grateful that you can take the least complicated part of… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“I don't know why anyone would be scared of a homeless person. The truly scary people are all the murder mystery writers. They spend… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“Until you have stood in another woman’s stilettos, you will never begin to know the year of pain she felt breaking them in.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“I don't understand women that call themselves a "bitch". It doesn't empower a woman. Rather, it reveals to everyone that you were deeply hurt… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“ The Prodigal Son They gave the deep end of their heart--a hue of crimson red, They whispered their desire and offered up their… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
