Become alert! Relationship destroys love, destroys the very possibility of its birth. — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
To live in relationship and yet remain independent, that is what courage is. — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
You go on reacting to the image not to the person, and hence there is no relationship. When there is no image,… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Then relationship happens. Before that it is just an empty name. Relationship cannot happen before the egos are gone. — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Freedom is not to be destroyed in the name of love. Freedom is a far higher value than your so-called love. — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
And you yourself are recognizing that you are in 'relationship with a beautiful and powerful woman and we both definitely don't want… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Relationship is the need of those who cannot be alone. Two alone persons relate, communicate, commune, and yet they remain alone. — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
If you are not capable of being alone, your relationship is false. It is just a trick to avoid your loneliness, nothing… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Love has these three stages, and compassion accordingly has three stages, and both can exist in different combinations. — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Relationship is a mirror.. Every moment the other reveals you, exposes you. The closer the relationship, the clearer is the mirror. — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Love respects the other. It is a give-and-take relationship. Love enjoys giving, and love enjoys taking. It is a sharing, it is… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Relationship means something complete, finished, closed. Love is never a relationship; love is relating. It is always a river, flowing, unending. Love… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Then just live in coexistence. Live the way all poor husbands are living. Show to the world that your wife is so… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Up to now, men and women have not been living in relationship - because woman has never been thought equal. And relationship… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
There is a fixation in the human mind for structures, because in a structured life one feels secure, one knows where one… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
But we are such deceivers that we will not look at ourselves in relationship, because there the real face can be seen.… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
You don't seem to have guts. There is no need to surrender to each other. Surrender to love means: enjoy in the… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Two persons can be very loving together. The more loving they are, the less is the possibility of any relationship. The more… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
In love, for example - the so-called love - we are 'related.' We appear to be related. We create the fallacy of… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Then the highest state of love is prayerfulness. In prayerfulness there is communion. In sex there is the I/it relationship, in love… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
If he loves, he wants to make a relationship out of it immediately! He wants to get married. He wants to create… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
But one thing you have to understand clearly is that it is the man who longs for domination, and it is the… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
And why do we reduce the beauty of relating to relationship? Why are we in such a hurry? - because to relate… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Self-knowledge is not the knowledge of a dead self, self-knowledge is the knowledge of the process of the self. It is an… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
The question of surrender is political, it is not a question of love. And relationship is not love at all; it means… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
I can understand; you are really in a mess and there is no way out. I have heard that there are three… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
In relationship, be blissful, in aloneness be aware and they will help each other, like two wings of a bird. — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Your question makes it clear that you have not understood what I mean when I say, 'Don't surrender to a person, surrender… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
My vision of a real humanity is of pure individuals relating to each other, but not tied in any relationship. They will… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
The moment love becomes a relationship, it becomes a bondage, because there are expectations and there are demands and there are frustrations,… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
You only believe that it is a relationship. It is a conflict, it is enmity, it is jealousy, it is aggression, it… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
So the first thing to be reminded of: love is never a relationship. Then something else is masquerading as love. Maybe you… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Relationship is the mirror: see your face there. Always remember relationship is the mirror. If your meditation is going deep, your relationship… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
So what you are doing, be aware, observe it, and then go on meditating. Soon you will begin to feel the change.… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Relationship may be just out of fear, may not have anything to do with love. Relationship may be just a kind of… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
First you will feel your inner transformation in your outer relationships, and then you will go deep. Then only will you begin… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Meditation for me is not a children's play, it is a deep transformation. How to know this transformation? It is being reflected… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
But people find it very difficult to be a loving person, so they create a relationship - and befool that way that… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
It cannot be, because the way man has treated woman has been basically wrong. Only between two equal persons is there a… — Rajneesh Copy Share Image
Because of the womb being a central phenomenon in the feminine body, the whole psychology of woman differs: she is non-aggressive, non-inquiring, non-questioning, non-doubting,… — Rajneesh Copy Share
It all depends on you. You can go on sleeping forever, you can wake up right this moment. — Rajneesh Copy Share
The greatest mystery in life is not life itself, but death. Death is the culmination of life, the ultimate blossoming of life. In death… — Rajneesh Copy Share
This mind is a prison. It cannot find any freedom anywhere. It must die before freedom comes to you. But we have taken the… — Rajneesh Copy Share
Never belong to a crowd; Never belong to a nation; Never belong to a religion; Never belong to a race. Belong to the whole… — Rajneesh Copy Share
Money should not be in the hands of individuals; otherwise it will create this problem of being burdened with guilt. And money can make… — Rajneesh Copy Share
Marriage is going to disappear, should disappear. And now the point is coming in the history of humanity where it becomes possible that marriage… — Rajneesh Copy Share
A mature mind is one who understands the impossibility of knowing the ultimate, and with this understanding there is a new dimension: the dimension… — Rajneesh Copy Share
The word religion comes from an origin which means "coming together." But priesthood has been doing just the opposite, it has created splits in… — Rajneesh Copy Share
There are people who want to become rich; they become rich. If you persist you can fulfill any kind of stupidity — Rajneesh Copy Share
Just take one thing out and the whole palace, the whole edifice of the human mind collapses. Take effort out of it and desiring… — Rajneesh Copy Share
To me, man means awareness of death. I am not saying become afraid of death; that is not awareness. Just be aware of the… — Rajneesh Copy Share
So your life becomes a vital celebration, your relationship becomes a festive thing. Whatsoever you do, every moment is a festival. You eat, and… — Rajneesh Copy Share
