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Relationship Quotes by Dada Bhagwan

51 Relationship quotes by Dada Bhagwan

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A cow‑buffalo has no mother, so it shows no relationships, illustrating the idea that connections are a mental net we build ourselves. The quotes also warn that strict parenting can shape a child's social skills, that compassion should avoid harsh criticism, and that clinging to what isn’t yours creates a karmic knot that binds future lives.

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“In a home, where the mother is strict, the son will be inept in proper worldly interactions.”

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“One is considered as a son if he were to remove all of his father's troubles.”

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“When the wife runs away, Know that too. When you bring home a wife, Know that too. The Knower has no attachment…

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“One is a husband as long as he is alive, but what if he is not alive? What if you get divorced…

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“If you have any compassion, then do not rebuke anyone in trying to improve them. He will surely meet someone who will…

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“In this world, there is truly no one who is your relative. And those who are, are in the form of a…

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“Relation with another man or a woman, other than one’s own husband or a wife, is a direct cause for a life…

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“Husband’ means ‘wife’ of a ‘wife’. But people have become husbands. Hey! Is the ‘wife’ going to become a Husband?”

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“One who stops being a mother-in-law, she has become free from all the attachment. She will never again become a mother-in-law! It…

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“When there is difference of opinion, there will be conflict. When there is difference of minds, there will be a divorce. When…

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“That which never becomes ruined is considered as true relationship. True relationship is only with the Soul. Other than that, all other…

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“The wife and children have come under our shelter. How can we hurt those who have come under our shelter (and support)?…

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“Prakruti (relative self) does not improve or come under control through fear or intimidation. Fear or intimidation is what has given rise…

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“Wherever there is attraction, there is delusionary attachment (moha). Maintain pure awakened awareness of the Soul (shuddha upyoga) where there is attraction.…

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“A man will ask his wife and children, ‘Should I worry for you?’ They will say, ‘No, do not worry for us,’…

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“There is no such thing as relationships in this world. It is really a self-created net. Do these cows-buffalos have any relationships?…

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“There is no support - support-taker relationship in the Self. The support - support-taker relationships apply to worldly self’s ‘temporary’ things. The…

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“He himself is ‘Absolute Supreme Soul’ (Parmatma), but he is involved in experiencing things which do not belong to him lawfully, and…

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“If you go to analyze it, then you will not find any joint partnership with anyone. If your son wants to go…

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“The phrase ‘adjust everywhere’ will take your worldly life to the top. One has not gone to moksha (Ultimate Liberation) without going…

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“One cannot do without a husband. As much need does one have to relieve herself, that much need one has for a…

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“There are two kinds of Soul: One is what people believed to be in the worldly interaction (Worldly Soul). It is the…

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“When you get irritated with children; that is considered as taking a new ‘loan’ (new karma is charged). You have not yet…

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“For how long can you remain in an imagined (false) state? For how long can you remain as imagined father-in-law to someone?…

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“We believe that this is ‘our’ home and ‘our’ family. No, it is a ‘shop’ for us to settle our karmas. It…

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“There is nothing in this world that will bind you. Only where one enjoys the women other than his own wife, that…

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“Those who became God’s boss, achieved success and those who became wife’s boss, suffered torture and died!”

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“Should we not have good conduct at home? Do we not make sure that we do not trample on the plant that…

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“When would marrying be great? If only one out of thousands is able to get married. But everyone gets married, so what…

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“How long will your acting as a husband (being boss of the wife) last? As long as you are not at fault.”

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“There is a very big 'college' about how a man and a woman should interact with each other after marriage. However, people…

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“Satsang means ‘I’ am with the absolute eternal (Dada Bhagwan, the Lord of 14 worlds) and you are with me, that is satsang.”

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“In a true sense, the world is not to be won. The home (family) needs to be won.”

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“The relationship with the world is a relative one; it is not a real (tatvik; eternal) relation. If one becomes aware of…

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“When is one considered to have learnt to become a husband? It is when the wife continuously experiences veneration (respect) for him.”

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“One who does not allow discord [with the wife] to happen even for a minute is considered a [true] husband. Look after…

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“If you are going to doubt someone, then do so all the way to the end. The Lord calls that awareness. Do…

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“A father will not keep looking for faults in his children if he is very religious/pious. One should not see faults in…

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“How can you afford to have difference of opinions at home? When the wife says, ‘I am yours’ and the husband says,…

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“There should be normality in the worldly life. It should not be such that a relative of yours comes to be a…

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“Where there are kashays (anger-pride-deceit-greed), there is worldly life. As long as anger-pride-deceit-greed exist; one is a sansaari [living a worldly life] regardless of…

“If one does not know how to read the account (karmic) book, then he will start to have doubts, and doubts lead to unhappiness.”

“Skills (learning) or lack of skills is all egoistic knowledge (ego based knowledge). Ego-free Knowledge is called (true) Knowledge [Gnan].”

“Continue with whatever it is that you have been doing, except for attachment-abhorrence. If ‘we’ stay in our state of Pure Soul, attachment-abhorrence will…

“A variety of difficulties will come your way. But at the time of difficulty, you will be able to find a ready made medicine…

“Suppose you want to go to Juhu (suburb in Mumbai) from here, and you come across two paths, which of the two paths is…

“The Soul (our true Self) has to be experienced, the Soul known through scriptures will not do. Work will not be completed through scriptural…

“If God were the doer, when will there be an end?! (If) God is the creator and he made us, we become his toys,…

“For those people whose association is harmful to the Self (kusangi), there is no better respectful fear (taap) than that of satsang (spiritual company).”

“Forgiveness is not to be given by speaking. Forgiveness is natural and spontaneously there. Spontaneous forgiveness is a sign of having attained the Self…

“Remaining absolutely non-acquisitive (aparigrahi) amidst all possessions is the ultimate ‘test examination’.”