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“Shake hands, we shall never be friends; give over: I only vex you the more I try. All's wrong that ever I've done and said, And nought to help it in this dull head: Shake hands, goodnight, goodbye. But if you come to a road where danger Or guilt or anguish or shame's to share, Be good to the lad…” quote by A.E. Housman
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““Shake hands, we shall never be friends; give over: I only vex you the more I try. All's wrong that ever I've done and said, And nought to help it in this dull head: Shake hands, goodnight, goodbye. But if you come to a road where danger Or guilt or anguish or shame's to share, Be good to the lad that loves you true And the soul that was born to die for you, And whistle and I'll be there.””

A.E. Housman

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A conflicted speaker expresses frustration and resignation, yet offers loyalty and support in times of hardship

In simple terms: Feeling conflicted but supportive in difficult times

Key Takeaway

Offer steadfast support despite personal turmoil

Themes

conflict loyalty existential

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

poetic emotional

When to use this quote

  • relationship counseling
  • personal crises
  • support groups
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

friendship guilt self‑criticism

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we balance personal doubts with supporting others?
  • What does loyalty mean when we feel inadequate?
A Different Perspective

Tone may seem melodramatic or overly poetic

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