Child Quote by Zick Rubin
“Whereas children can learn from their interactions with their parents how to get along in one sort of social hierarchy--that of the family--it is from their interactions with peers that they can best learn how to survive among equals in a wide range of social situations.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Social Development in Children, 1970
Children learn hierarchy from family but learn equality and broader social skills from peers.
In simple terms: Family teaches hierarchy; peers teach equality.
Engage with diverse peers to broaden social competence.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- school
- team sports
- community groups
- online forums
- workplace
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do peer groups shape your view of equality?
- What strategies help you seek positive peer influences?
Peers may reinforce negative norms; not all peer groups are healthy.