Birth Quote by Zack Love
““Every human relationship begins with a coincidence. Even the most fundamental relationship - that of parent and child - begins entirely with a coincidence. The child is produced by whatever serendipity brought its parents together, and the fact that the child was born to its particular parents instead of to another couple is pure happenstance. Thus, children have no choice over the relationship that is most important to their existence. By contrast, friends and lovers choose each other, but even these choices are reactions to whatever random coincidence made the resulting relationship possible.””
About This Quote
Human relationships often start from random events beyond our control, especially parent‑child bonds, while friendships and romances involve choice but are still rooted in chance.
In simple terms: Relationships begin by chance; some are chosen, some not.
Recognize the role of chance and appreciate chosen bonds.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- parenting
- friendship
- romance
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you honor relationships that were not chosen?
- Can we change the impact of chance?
Even chosen relationships are influenced by random circumstances.