Fall in love Quote by Yukio Mishima
““On reflection, falling in love for him was not only extraordinary, but rather comical. By having closely observed Kiyoaki Matsugae, he knew full well what sort of man should fall in love. Falling in love was a special privilege given to someone whose external, sensuous charm and internal ignorance, disorganization, and lack of cognizance permitted him to form a kind of fantasy about others. It was a rude privilege. Honda was quite aware that since his childhood, he had been the opposite of such a man.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Temple of the Golden Pavilion, Yukio Mishima, 1956
He sees love as a privileged, almost absurd fantasy granted to those who lack self‑awareness, contrasting his own disciplined self.
In simple terms: Love is a special, foolish privilege for the unaware.
Key Takeaway
Recognize how self‑knowledge shapes desire.
Themes
love
self‑awareness
fantasy
privilege
Mood
melancholic
reflective
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- self‑reflection
- literary analysis
Key Concepts
existentialism
psychology
romantic idealism
Questions to Reflect On
- What does “privilege” mean in love?
- How does self‑awareness affect attraction?
A Different Perspective
His view may romanticize ignorance, ignoring healthy emotional maturity.
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