Admire Quote by Willis Regier
“Excellent flatterers welcome attentive audiences; mighty potentates enjoy public praise. In the most pleasing situation, a flatterer would genuinely admire the flatteree, please that person, please other present company, be pleased to stagger rivals, and get something out of it: applause, promotion, a favor, reciprocal praise. Flattery is as social as a banquet.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Art of Rhetoric, unknown author, 19th century
Flattery works because it pleases both the praised and the onlookers, creating mutual benefit and social advantage
In simple terms: Flattery pleases everyone involved and gains favor
Key Takeaway
Use sincere praise wisely to build relationships
Themes
social dynamics
influence
reciprocity
Mood
cautious
strategic
reflective
Type
advice
observational
cautionary
When to use this quote
- political speeches
- corporate meetings
- networking events
- social media interactions
Key Concepts
ego
validation
group cohesion
Questions to Reflect On
- When does praise become manipulation?
- How can genuine appreciation differ from strategic flattery?
A Different Perspective
Insincere flattery can backfire if perceived as manipulative
