Affair Quote by William Makepeace Thackeray
“We should pay as much reverence to youth as we should to age; there are points in which you young folks are altogether our superiors: and I can't help constantly crying out to persons of my own years, when busied about their young people--leave them alone; don't be always meddling with their affairs, which they can manage for themselves; don't be always insisting upon managing their boats, and putting your oars in the water with theirs.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Vanity Fair, 1848
Young people deserve autonomy; elders should respect their independence and not intervene unnecessarily.
In simple terms: Let youth manage their own lives.
Respect youthful independence.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- parenting
- mentorship
- community leadership
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When have you over‑guided someone?
- How can you support without controlling?
Overprotectiveness can stifle growth.