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Affair Quote by William Makepeace Thackeray

“We should pay as much reverence to youth as we should to age; there are points in which you young folks are altogether our superiors: and I can't help constantly crying out to persons of my own years, when busied about their young people--leave them alone; don't be always meddling with their…” quote by William Makepeace Thackeray
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“We should pay as much reverence to youth as we should to age; there are points in which you young folks are altogether our superiors: and I can't help constantly crying out to persons of my own years, when busied about their young people--leave them alone; don't be always meddling with their affairs, which they can manage for themselves; don't be always insisting upon managing their boats, and putting your oars in the water with theirs.”

William Makepeace Thackeray

About This Quote

Source Novel: Vanity Fair, 1848

Young people deserve autonomy; elders should respect their independence and not intervene unnecessarily.

In simple terms: Let youth manage their own lives.

Key Takeaway

Respect youthful independence.

Themes

generational respect autonomy interference

Mood

reflective concerned

Type

advisory philosophical

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • mentorship
  • community leadership

Key Concepts

social dynamics family relations

Questions to Reflect On

  • When have you over‑guided someone?
  • How can you support without controlling?
A Different Perspective

Overprotectiveness can stifle growth.

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