Ashamed Quote by William Faulkner
“In the South you are ashamed of being a virgin. Boys. Men. They lie about it. Because it means less to women, Father said. He said it was men invented virginity not women. Father said it's like death: only a state in which the others are left and I said, But to believe it doesn't matter and he said, That's what's so sad about anything: not only virginity and I said, Why couldn't it have been me and not her who is unvirgin and he said, That's why that's sad too; nothing is even worth the changing of it...”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Light in August, 1932
Societal expectations impose artificial constructs like virginity, causing shame and gendered double standards.
In simple terms: Society creates harmful gender norms.
Key Takeaway
Question and challenge imposed gender norms.
Themes
gender
shame
social constructs
double standards
identity
Mood
critical
reflective
Type
analytical
emotive
When to use this quote
- school discussions
- family dialogues
- media analysis
- policy debates
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
masculinity
virginity myth
social pressure
Questions to Reflect On
- How do gender norms affect self-worth?
- What can break the cycle of shame?
A Different Perspective
Changing deep-rooted beliefs is difficult.
