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Break your heart Quote by Wilkie Collins

“Who cares for his causes of complaint? Are you to break your heart to set his mind at ease? No man under heaven deserves these sacrifices from us women. Men! They are the enemies of our innocence and our peace - they drag us away from our parents' love and our sisters' friendship - they take us…” quote by Wilkie Collins
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““Who cares for his causes of complaint? Are you to break your heart to set his mind at ease? No man under heaven deserves these sacrifices from us women. Men! They are the enemies of our innocence and our peace - they drag us away from our parents' love and our sisters' friendship - they take us body and soul to themselves, and fasten our helpless lives to theirs as they chain up a dog to his kennel. And what does the best of them give us in return?””

Wilkie Collins

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Woman in White by Wilkie Collins, 1859

The passage critiques how men exploit women's vulnerability, demanding emotional and physical sacrifices while offering little in return.

In simple terms: Men exploit women without gratitude.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and resist exploitative relationships.

Themes

gender inequality exploitation power dynamics emotional labor

Mood

frustrated defiant

Type

social critique feminist.

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • workplace
  • family expectations
  • social norms

Key Concepts

patriarchy dependency sacrifice

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can women assert agency in such dynamics?
  • What support systems can counteract this exploitation?
A Different Perspective

Not all men are exploitative; context matters.

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