Temper Quote by Wilkie Collins
““Whenever a woman tries to put you out of a temper, turn the tables, and put HER out of temper instead. They are generally prepared for every effort you can make in your own defence, but that.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Woman in White, 1859
Deflecting aggression by turning the emotional charge back onto the aggressor can neutralize conflict.
In simple terms: Redirect anger to protect yourself.
Key Takeaway
Use calm reversal to de‑escalate tension.
Themes
conflict resolution
emotional intelligence
defense
Mood
cautious
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
advice
When to use this quote
- argument
- family disputes
- workplace confrontations
- online debates
Key Concepts
psychology
power dynamics
communication
Questions to Reflect On
- Is it ethical to provoke another’s temper?
- What are safer ways to manage aggression?
A Different Perspective
Manipulation may worsen hostility or cause retaliation.
