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Child Quote by Wendy Mogel

“The sages advise us to study Torah lishma-"for its own sake" rather than to impress others with our scholarship. A paradox of parenting is that if we love our children for their own sake rather than for their achievements, it's more likely that they will reach their true potential.” quote by Wendy Mogel
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““The sages advise us to study Torah lishma-"for its own sake" rather than to impress others with our scholarship. A paradox of parenting is that if we love our children for their own sake rather than for their achievements, it's more likely that they will reach their true potential.””

Wendy Mogel

About This Quote

Source Book: Parenting Beyond Discipline by Wendy Mogel, 2015

Studying sacred texts for intrinsic value fosters genuine growth, and loving children for who they are encourages them to achieve their true potential.

In simple terms: Value learning and love for their own sake.

Key Takeaway

Focus on intrinsic motivation.

Themes

parenting education spirituality

Mood

reflective encouraging

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family meals
  • religious study
  • child development
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

intrinsic motivation self‑actualization love vs achievement

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you nurture intrinsic love in daily life?
  • What practices reinforce studying for its own sake?
A Different Perspective

External validation can still undermine confidence.

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