Affectionate Quote by Walt Whitman
““PASSING stranger! you do not know how longingly I look upon you, You must be he I was seeking, or she I was seeking, (it comes to me, as of a dream,) I have somewhere surely lived a life of joy with you, All is recall’d as we flit by each other, fluid, affectionate, chaste, matured, You grew up with me, were a boy with me, or a girl with me, 5 I ate with you, and slept with you—your body has become not yours only, nor left my body mine only, You give me the pleasure of your eyes, face, flesh, as we pass—you take of my beard, breast, hands, in return, I am not to speak to you—I am to think of you when I sit alone, or wake at night alone, I am to wait—I do not doubt I am to meet you again, I am to see to it that I do not lose you.””
About This Quote
Source Poem: Leaves of Grass, 1855
A yearning for a deep, timeless connection that transcends gender and physical boundaries, expressing longing and unity with a soulmate.
In simple terms: Longing for a timeless, gender‑fluid soulmate.
Key Takeaway
Seek deep, enduring connections.
Themes
love
longing
identity
spirituality
union
Mood
yearning
intimate
reflective
Type
poetic
philosophical
When to use this quote
- romantic yearning
- personal reflection
- spiritual meditation
Key Concepts
soulmate
transcendence
gender fluidity
Questions to Reflect On
- What does “soulmate” mean to you?
- How do you honor fluid identity in love?
A Different Perspective
The poem assumes the soulmate is fated, which may overlook agency and realistic relationship dynamics.
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