Civilization Quote by Wallace Stegner
““I never learned to say shit before a lady. I don't believe in progress in quite the way you seem to. You believe in it more than Grandmother did. As for those purely cultural patterns of convention you think I ought to escape from, they happen to add up to civilization, and I'd rather be civilized than tribal or uncouth.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Language of Love, 1970
He values civilization's refined conventions over raw tribal instincts, preferring polite behavior despite its restrictive nature.
In simple terms: He prefers polite, civilized behavior over crude habits.
Key Takeaway
Embrace courtesy while questioning its limits.
Themes
civilization
politeness
tradition
individualism
Mood
thoughtful
conflicted
Type
philosophical
contemplative
When to use this quote
- social gatherings
- formal events
- interpersonal communication
Key Concepts
cultural norms
social etiquette
personal freedom
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you feel civility limits your true self?
- When is breaking convention beneficial?
A Different Perspective
Politeness can suppress authentic expression and cause inner conflict.
