Selfish Quote by Virginia Woolf
““Have I never understood you, Katherine? Have I been very selfish?’ 'Yes ... You've asked her for sympathy, and she's not sympathetic; you've wanted her to be practical, and she's not practical.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Mrs Dalloway, 1925
A character feels misunderstood, desiring practical support but receiving emotional sympathy, highlighting mismatched expectations.
In simple terms: People often expect the wrong kind of help.
Key Takeaway
Align expectations with needs.
Themes
misunderstanding
relationships
expectations
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
literary
conversational
When to use this quote
- friendship
- therapy
- teamwork
Key Concepts
psychology
communication
emotional intelligence
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you ask for what you truly need?
- How can you clarify expectations?
A Different Perspective
Practical solutions may ignore emotional needs.
