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Death and dying Quote by Virginia Woolf

“Dearest, I feel certain that I am going mad again. I feel we can't go through another of those terrible times. And I shan't recover this time. I begin to hear voices, and I can't concentrate. So I am doing what seems the best thing to do. You have given me the greatest possible happiness. You have…” quote by Virginia Woolf
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““Dearest, I feel certain that I am going mad again. I feel we can't go through another of those terrible times. And I shan't recover this time. I begin to hear voices, and I can't concentrate. So I am doing what seems the best thing to do. You have given me the greatest possible happiness. You have been in every way all that anyone could be. I don't think two people could have been happier 'til this terrible disease came. I can't fight any longer. I know that I am spoiling your life, that without me you could work. And you will I know. You see I can't even write this properly. I can't read. What I want to say is I owe all the happiness of my life to you. You have been entirely patient with me and incredibly good. I want to say that – everybody knows it. If anybody could have saved me it would have been you. Everything has gone from me but the certainty of your goodness. I can't go on spoiling your life any longer. I don't think two people could have been happier than we have been. V.””

Virginia Woolf

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Years, 1937

A narrator grapples with mental illness, expressing love, gratitude, and despair, confronting the burden of being a perceived burden to a loved one.

In simple terms: A person with illness feels they are a burden despite love.

Key Takeaway

Seek support and communicate openly about mental health.

Themes

mental illness love despair

Mood

somber reflective empathetic

Type

literary emotional personal

When to use this quote

  • Therapy sessions
  • family discussions
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

Existential dread dependency psychological struggle

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can loved ones better support someone in crisis?
  • What steps can reduce feelings of being a burden?
A Different Perspective

The narrative may romanticize suffering.

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