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Character Quote by Violet Trefusis

“Heaven preserve me from littleness and pleasantness and smoothness. Give me great glaring vices, and great glaring virtues, but preserve me from the neat little neutral ambiguities. Be wicked, be brave, be drunk, be reckless, be dissolute, be despotic, be a suffragette, be anything you like, but…” quote by Violet Trefusis
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““Heaven preserve me from littleness and pleasantness and smoothness. Give me great glaring vices, and great glaring virtues, but preserve me from the neat little neutral ambiguities. Be wicked, be brave, be drunk, be reckless, be dissolute, be despotic, be a suffragette, be anything you like, but for pity's sake be it to the top of your bent. Live fully, live passionately, live disastrously. Let's live, you and I, as none have ever lived before. (- to Vita Sackville-West, October 25, 1918)””

Violet Trefusis

About This Quote

Source Letter: Correspondence to Vita Sackville‑West, 25 Oct 1918

A plea for intense, unrestrained living, rejecting moderation and embracing bold, even reckless, experiences.

In simple terms: Embrace extremes, avoid blandness.

Key Takeaway

Choose daring over safe.

Themes

passion radicalism individualism risk authenticity

Mood

defiant exuberant

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • artistic creation
  • personal crisis
  • social rebellion
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

existentialism hedonism transcendence

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you fear a life of mediocrity?
  • What risks are you willing to take for authenticity?
A Different Perspective

Such intensity can alienate others and lead to self‑destruction.

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