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Belong Quote by Truman Capote

“Poor slob without a name. It's a little inconvenient, his not having a name. But I haven't the right to give him one: he'll have to wait until he belongs to somebody. We just sort of took up by the river one day, we don't belong to each other: he's an independent, and so am I. I don't want to own…” quote by Truman Capote
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“Poor slob without a name. It's a little inconvenient, his not having a name. But I haven't the right to give him one: he'll have to wait until he belongs to somebody. We just sort of took up by the river one day, we don't belong to each other: he's an independent, and so am I. I don't want to own anything until I know I've found the place where me and things belong together.”

Truman Capote

About This Quote

Source Novel: Other Voices, Other Rooms, 1948

The speaker resists claiming ownership of a nameless person, waiting until a mutual belonging is established.

In simple terms: He refuses to own until mutual belonging is found.

Key Takeaway

Seek mutual belonging before possession.

Themes

identity ownership belonging independence

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • adoption
  • community building
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

existentialism personal boundaries

Questions to Reflect On

  • What conditions create true mutual belonging?
  • How does waiting affect relationships?
A Different Perspective

Ownership without mutual belonging can cause alienation.

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