Child Quote by Tove Jansson
““You sentimentalise them because they're little," she said. "But the format doesn't matter. I have gradually learned that everyone, absolutely everyone of every size, is out to get something. People want things. It comes to them naturally. Of course they get more skilful with age, and they're no longer so disarmingly obvious, but the goal doesn't change. Your children simply haven't had time to learn how it's done. That's what we call innocence.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Moominvalley in November by Tove Jansson, 1970
People of all ages seek personal gain; innocence is merely lack of experience in realizing this.
In simple terms: Everyone wants something; kids just haven't learned how yet.
Key Takeaway
Recognize that motives are universal, not age‑dependent.
Themes
human nature
innocence
motivation
growth
Mood
reflective
analytical
Type
philosophical
observational
When to use this quote
- parenting
- education
- business negotiations
- team dynamics
Key Concepts
psychology
social behavior
developmental stages
Questions to Reflect On
- How does recognizing universal self‑interest affect trust?
- Can innocence be a strategic advantage?
A Different Perspective
Assuming selfishness ignores genuine altruism and cooperation.
